hello there!
I have EEC - with hands and feet affected, cleft palate, heir lip, small bladder, missing teeth, corneal ulcers,etc etc BUT I have married, have 3 children and am very happy!
Our middle child has EEC also (although medics question diagnosis it's obvious to me!) She has very short non growing hair, missing teeth, renal problems and 1 fused digit on her hand.She is now 14!
We don't have the other problems that you've mentioned but if we can give you any help or advise please ask!
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